In a previous article, I wrote about confidence and building a Confidence Bank. As children we believe the sky is the limit when it comes to our dreams. Unfortunately as we grow older, somehow our surroundings begin the “dream killing process” of creating limiting beliefs. Suddenly you’re told what you can and can’t do-or be! That’s why as we embark upon our teenage years sometimes we become rebellious trying to figure out “self”.
We eventually outgrow that phase (hopefully) and as young adults begin to realize and appreciate our uniqueness. Yet, we continue to struggle with meeting a certain standard and measuring up to a specific image. If we are not aware, life becomes a contest of comparing and competing. We look around a room to see if we are the smartest, the healthiest, the most popular, the wealthiest, or the best dressed. The old adage, “The one with the most toys, wins!” can easily make life more about having and less about being. Self-worth is the recognition that who we are defines us – not what we have.
Confidence helps fertilize the brain and create a healthy foundation for your accomplishments to grow! Confidence is power! Confidence is sexy! Confidence is being at peace with who you are and the ability to be self confident in our choices. Not perfect….simply confident!
If you want to build your Confidence Bank…then call/ email me and find out how you can join my coaching club and begin your journey!